Have you been in a relationship, be it long term or not, and your girlfriend decided to leave you. As far as you knew everything had been going great with this relationship. What is it that can cause a woman to leave you like this? This happens everyday and there is not much we can do about it.
What could be going on is that the woman’s feeling of attraction for you is no longer there. She probably won’t come right out and tell you this but it’s the main reason women leave their guy. They may tell you other reasons why they are leaving because they don’t want to hurt your feelings. If they would have told you the real reason for leaving could it have been possible to stop her?
When the two of you first met there was surely this attraction she had for you. Somewhere along the line you may have relaxed to the point she became the dominate force in your relationship. She had power over you and she began to feel you became weak.
How can you overcome her losing attraction to you? Don’t be boring and predictable to her! If you can keep her guessing about what you are going to do or how you will act, you will give her things to think about concerning you and will keep her confused.
If you really want to push it, when you can see a break up coming why not leave her first? This will throw her off guard to the point she will try to do what she can to keep you. This move will put the power back in your hands where it belongs.
Some tips on how to keep your man happy should always be welcomed, included here are a few things to consider. You should be paying attention to your man, you would be able to pick up what he likes and dislikes. Play off of these as much as possible avoiding the dislikes every chance you get.
All ways be there for him and support him, if feels good to him that you are on his side. This is great for their ego’s to know you are there. Try to trust that the decisions he makes are the right ones. He may make a mistake or make a bad decision sometimes, and he should be man enough to own up to it, but as long as you support him he will appreciate you for it.
Do not be controlling, men do not like to be talked down to, it’s the ego. Especially in public, nobody likes to be talked down to if front of people. You should get the same respect from him. If your man is treated like a child, he may just leave you at some point.
Your relationship should be equal in terms of what each of your needs are. Do not demand too much for yourself; give as much as you ask for. Sharing this way will keep the two of you on equal terms and your man will not feel pressured to always be catering to you.
You and your man each have different interests, try to do things with him. If he asks you to go to a sporting event with him and you don’t like sports, you should go sometimes. If he asked you to go he must really be telling you he likes your company.
From Publishers Weekly
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I love my man and there are certain things about him that just turn me on. We have been together for a while now, but there are still things about him that get my motor running. He has been by my side since day one and has always loved and cared for me the same way that I have loved and cared for him. I have been in a long relationship before, but it seems like after a while things got boring and there was nothing to do in the relationship except for call each other names and point out each other faults. This is one of the things I love my man for.
He is always coming up with something new and exciting to keep the relationship fresh. Sometimes we go to the park, sometimes we stay in and watch a movie on the couch, but no matter what we do I always feel good because I know he is right by my side. He mixes things up and every now and then we go out to a night club. We always have a blast drinking on the dance floor while listening to our favorite artists’ make the club come to life. I love my man because he is always shaking things up instead of doing the same things every day.
Another reason why I love my man is because he is always making me laugh. There are a lot of stressful situations that I find myself in everyday, so it is always nice to relieve that stress by listening to him tell me something funny. The things he says and does are enough to turn anyone’s bad day into a much better day in an instant.
I love my boyfriend a whole lot and truly do not feel that there is another man like him in this world. If you ever have that feeling about someone that you are with I highly suggest that you hang on to him. You never know where or when your soul mate will enter your life, but when he does you will hopefully hang on to him forever. I love my man with all my heart and know he feels the same way about me. Our relationship has not reached that boring point where we start calling each other names and pointing out the bad things about each other and I hope it never will.
I wanted to know how to please my man one day, so I set out to find different way to please him. I did a lot of things by trial and error, but I also read a lot of different things on the subject. I do not consider myself a professional, but I have learned how to please my man and now have a great healthy relationship.
One of the things I did was buy the book that I have listed over on the right. That book had more knowledge about what men are really like and gave me so much insight into building and keeping a healthy relationship with a man. I do not know if I would have eventually figured out how to please my man, but I do know that I wish I would have gotten it a little bit sooner.
Learning different things from a book was not the only thing I did though. I also began to experiment a little bit in the bedroom. I began wearing some different sexy clothes to bed at night time to see what his reaction was to them. I also began mixing up our sexual time as well. I started bringing different toys to the bed with me for us to play with. Now I have to admit, he was not very open to the idea at first, but once he started experiencing the pleasure from the things I was doing our sexual activity picked up a whole lot.
I tried a lot of different things to learn how to please my man, and finally decided that I would open a website, so that I can share some of these ways with others. I have listed a lot of the things that I tried out with my man that I recommend others give a shot as well. If I had it all to do again though, I would start with downloading the book I have listed in the book club, and then seeing what you can get away with in the bedroom. I am off to please my man now, so I will have to post more about this later on….
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